Brilliant Sunshine

It's just me, thinking out loud

Right time

on July 3, 2011

“Men marry when the right time comes, women marry when the right man comes.”

How do you know when you’re ready for marriage? I guess this question is as equally as hard as, How do you know if he/she is the one? But most people who are married actually answers, “you just know it”. I neither agree nor disagree, I’ve never travelled that road.

“Men marry when the right time comes, women marry when the right man comes.”, I smiled and realized that it has some truth to it, from then on I never forgot about it. But as time passes by I realized that while men are the ones who needs to feel that it is the “right time”, time is still more of the women’s concern. In a relationship, it is the woman who needs to know the direction, if there is any, for the simple reason that, a woman doesn’t have that much time to waste, biological clock being (I guess) one of the main concerns. ‘Though the woman doesn’t have much time to waste, she has no control over it, she has no choice but to wait for her man to realize that it is already the right time, sad but true.

A lot of girls in their late 20s and early 30s are experiencing this, whether taken or not, those who are taken are worried where will their present relationships go while those who are single and available are worried when will their right man come. The aspect of love is already hard as it is what more if we add marriage and timing to the topic.

Time is always an element. a very important element in almost everything, all I know is the right man will always come in the right time and together you’ll feel when is the right time for marriage.


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