Brilliant Sunshine

It's just me, thinking out loud

I live, I love?, I learn

on March 17, 2011

Seems like a lot went on for the last few months of 2010 continuing to the first few months of 2011, as they say:

“Every situation has a postive side…a lesson hidden in its test…a message hidden in its mess.”

My life mostly revolved on my work which by some twist of fate also connected itself to love. It really was crazy, but as what I’ve always believed in, “Let’s trust God’s wisdom behind it.” so let me share some of the lessons I’ve learned in no particular order.

Be careful with what you wish for. ‘Cause you just might get it.

I know it’s a cliche but it doesn’t mean that it isn’t true. I was so bored with my work before then God gave me a new job and I must say that it really is exciting that I almost cannot handle it.

Cross the bridge when you get there.

While it is good to have a plan for your future, there are some things in life where you don’t really need plans due to too much uncertainty.

While some good things never last, some are not even meant to start.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not broken hearted I just realized that when things are bound to happen they surely will…if you cooperate.

Some things are better kept to yourself.

I’ve got lots of friends, good friends I must say but there are things which are better kept within you to avoid conflicts. I’m not encouraging dishonesty but just saving some things for yourself, after all, there’s nothing wrong with being private.

 All the people around you has an opinion but at the end of the day, it’s you who knows the real score.

I’ve got quite a number of opinions with what went on, analyzations, interpretations and all of those stuffs but at the end of the day, it’s me who knows the truth, it’s me who knows the real score, it’s me who can feel things, it’s still my decision.

 Trust comes from Truth

If there is one thing that I’ll forever be thankful to him, it is that I gained my mom’s trust through him. It’s not like my mom doesn’t trust me at all, it’s just that she’s too suspicious that I’m hiding a boyfriend. It was through him that my mom proved that I’m telling the truth when it comes to the apect of dating.

Somewhere right in the middle of an ordinary life, Love gives us a fairy tale.

It wasn’t really like a fairy tale, it’s just that everything came as a surprise, everything was beyond my expectations. My everyday life was a routine but it changed when he came.

There could be someone who can bear with all your weirdness.

 I may look normal on the outside but I’m totally weird on the inside and surprisingly, someone is as weird as me. So I guess, it’s normal to be weird.

Strangely, there will be a few who can discover the real you that you’ve been hiding.

In a short span of time, he was able to know and discover the real me ‘though I kept on hiding it from the people whom I normally deal with.

Life and love is about taking chances most of the time

I took the chance of knowing him and I was surprised that it lead to… I don’t know where exactly but it lead to something, ‘though we haven’t took the chance yet, and can’t figure out if we’ll eventually take it, I’m still glad it happened.

Some people are more pressured than you when it comes to your love life.

I’m fine, I’m just fine, living one day at a time, enjoying what we have but some people seems to want to take things to the next level. Well, things are slow than normal, I must admit but I also don’t think I can handle things if it will go faster.

You have to make a choice.

It’s always your choice to make things work. It’s your choice which things to sacrifice. It’s your choice who do you want to become. It’s always your choice.

Do your part of the deal.

Always do your part of the deal, if you’re sure you’ve done your part then there will be no regrets, no what ifs. Just do what you think is reasonable enough then cooperate with destiny, if it’s bound to happen, it will, the force of the universe will conspire.

Whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it.

Sometimes all we need to have is faith, faith that God will give us what we need and most of the time even more.


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